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Written by: 6/10/2010 12:26 PM
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Re: A Solo Sailors Perspective on the Disappearance of Abby Sunderland Spot on LeeWhat a tragic and useless waste of a young life if the worst plays out. While at 16 I was fairly well versed in mechanical abilities I was no way ready for total self dependence. These "parents" now must face the lifetime of guilt knowing they allowed such a foolish endeavor.
Re: A Solo Sailors Perspective on the Disappearance of Abby Sunderland
Spot on LeeWhat a tragic and useless waste of a young life if the worst plays out. While at 16 I was fairly well versed in mechanical abilities I was no way ready for total self dependence. These "parents" now must face the lifetime of guilt knowing they allowed such a foolish endeavor.
Re: A Solo Sailors Perspective on the Disappearance of Abby Sunderland I'm sure by now that you've heard her boat was demasted by 30ft. waves, that she's been spotted, and is now awaiting pickup from a French vessel in the general area. I'm glad to hear that her parents took every step to give her a boat in which she could survive most at-sea catastrophes. I'm also in complete agreement with you that this push to have kids set records leaves parental responsibility completely unbound. Regardless of Abby's experience at the helm, 1. she simply hasn't had the time to cognitively develop adult judgement capacity; 2. she's been allowed to put herself in a position that is truly life-threatening. As a father, that seems to me to be a complete abdication. Its the same with the kid who's trying to climb the highest peaks on all continents, and just did Everest at age 13. Why? To set the record as the youngest to finish them first. He safely made it to the summit and back, but if he hadn't would his parents feel that the loss of their child was worth the foolish pursuit of notoriety? I have not problem with encouraging kids to take risks and discover their limits, but who would analogously encourage a kid to free climb El Capitan?Stay safe, Lee.
I'm sure by now that you've heard her boat was demasted by 30ft. waves, that she's been spotted, and is now awaiting pickup from a French vessel in the general area. I'm glad to hear that her parents took every step to give her a boat in which she could survive most at-sea catastrophes. I'm also in complete agreement with you that this push to have kids set records leaves parental responsibility completely unbound. Regardless of Abby's experience at the helm, 1. she simply hasn't had the time to cognitively develop adult judgement capacity; 2. she's been allowed to put herself in a position that is truly life-threatening. As a father, that seems to me to be a complete abdication. Its the same with the kid who's trying to climb the highest peaks on all continents, and just did Everest at age 13. Why? To set the record as the youngest to finish them first. He safely made it to the summit and back, but if he hadn't would his parents feel that the loss of their child was worth the foolish pursuit of notoriety? I have not problem with encouraging kids to take risks and discover their limits, but who would analogously encourage a kid to free climb El Capitan?Stay safe, Lee.
Re: A Solo Sailors Perspective on the Disappearance of Abby Sunderland Foolish pursuits indeed. Jessica got Lucky, Abby, well, not so much. I doubt either one of them was fully physically and mentally prepared to make that voyage. I wonder if without sponsorships, media coverage, a team of experts in constant communication making decisions and all of the high tech gadgets money could buy, would they still be willing to sail the world by themselves? Does anyone think that they could even fully grasp the concept and technicalities of going out there and not coming back? I'm 28 and I'm not even sure I have yet come to terms with the idea, but maybe that's just me, and maybe that's why I am just fine right now plunking my catalina 22 (an old boat a bought myself without sponsorships, in a state of disrepair, painted more times over than I can count in my own sweat and blood with the work of my own two hands) down into a nice pretty lake for a weekend and calling it good for now. (Don't get me wrong, if I had no desire to sail the world I would never have found this website...)
Foolish pursuits indeed. Jessica got Lucky, Abby, well, not so much. I doubt either one of them was fully physically and mentally prepared to make that voyage. I wonder if without sponsorships, media coverage, a team of experts in constant communication making decisions and all of the high tech gadgets money could buy, would they still be willing to sail the world by themselves? Does anyone think that they could even fully grasp the concept and technicalities of going out there and not coming back? I'm 28 and I'm not even sure I have yet come to terms with the idea, but maybe that's just me, and maybe that's why I am just fine right now plunking my catalina 22 (an old boat a bought myself without sponsorships, in a state of disrepair, painted more times over than I can count in my own sweat and blood with the work of my own two hands) down into a nice pretty lake for a weekend and calling it good for now. (Don't get me wrong, if I had no desire to sail the world I would never have found this website...)
Re: A Solo Sailors Perspective on the Disappearance of Abby Sunderland "I'm glad to hear that her parents took every step to give her a boat in which she could survive most at-sea catastrophes."Well I actually would not have sent her to sea in such a lightweight racing boat. The choice Jessica's parents made was wiser. A bigger fault is sailing the roaring forties in the Southern Ocean winter. Having sailed a couple of oceans I would pause before going down that far in the summer, and would not be down that far even then unless rounding one of the capes. Now Australian S&R resources must risk their lives and the nearest fishing vessel's crews must risk their lives trying to get her off the boat in aweful sea conditions. I just hope the transfers all go OK and no one gets crushed between the hulls.
"I'm glad to hear that her parents took every step to give her a boat in which she could survive most at-sea catastrophes."Well I actually would not have sent her to sea in such a lightweight racing boat. The choice Jessica's parents made was wiser. A bigger fault is sailing the roaring forties in the Southern Ocean winter. Having sailed a couple of oceans I would pause before going down that far in the summer, and would not be down that far even then unless rounding one of the capes. Now Australian S&R resources must risk their lives and the nearest fishing vessel's crews must risk their lives trying to get her off the boat in aweful sea conditions. I just hope the transfers all go OK and no one gets crushed between the hulls.
Re: A Solo Sailors Perspective on the Disappearance of Abby Sunderland joan of arc was 16....alexander the great was 16....lady jane grey was 16...louis braille was 16...they changed the world...i think the parents did all they could to prepare abby....as a parent of 14 year old twins i have found that stopping them from doing something they have made up their mind to do is practically impossible, all we can do is help them to accomplish what they want as safely as possible.
joan of arc was 16....alexander the great was 16....lady jane grey was 16...louis braille was 16...they changed the world...i think the parents did all they could to prepare abby....as a parent of 14 year old twins i have found that stopping them from doing something they have made up their mind to do is practically impossible, all we can do is help them to accomplish what they want as safely as possible.
Re: A Solo Sailors Perspective on the Disappearance of Abby Sunderland Wish we knew how you scratched your eye? Just hope it is healing properly. Also hope a majic person appears who can sail with you. What if you had scratched your eye out on the open ocean? I know you would have figured out a way. But we wish you had help.
Wish we knew how you scratched your eye? Just hope it is healing properly. Also hope a majic person appears who can sail with you. What if you had scratched your eye out on the open ocean? I know you would have figured out a way. But we wish you had help.
Re: A Solo Sailors Perspective on the Disappearance of Abby Sunderland I have to side with Marcus on the issue. Though Jerry canceled my vote even before I got to say anything about it.
I have to side with Marcus on the issue. Though Jerry canceled my vote even before I got to say anything about it.