Nov 30

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11/30/2008 8:36 AM 

I found myself in a place I’ve never really been before this Thanksgiving. It was the same house I’d grown up in and my mom, dad, bother, aunt, uncle, and cousins were all home, but there was something missing. For the first time in my life it’s clear that my parents don’t like and don’t approve of what I am about to do. Until now, their encouragement and approval have always been a constant in my life.

My dad hates to travel and despises water. That one I can understand. My mom thinks that I’ll get so seasick I’ll be incapacitated and unable to take care of myself and the boat leading to certain doom. That or I’ll get tossed overboard and be unable to get help. I’ve done everything I know to do to reassure her, explained all the safety precautions that I’ve taken, and addressed each of her concerns, but nothing I can say or do short of not going will comfort her.

Mom and Dad, I love you and it’s harder than you know for me to go down a path that is causing you pain and anguish. I don’t know how to be true to myself and keep you from the hurt you are feeling now. I only hope that as I depart and the trip progresses you will become more comfortable with my decision.


Lee